You Spent HOW MUCH on WHAT???
Understanding the Sense of Dollars and Cents in Relationships
Realize that there are communication gaps in most relationships. One area where communication is vital is when it involves finances.
A recent article by Humberto Cruz entitled "Communication is Key for Finances in Marriage" (Tribune Media Services) underscores how the words of Alison Krauss' hit country single "When You Say Nothing at All" is better suited for a love ballad than for real life.
It is not uncommon for couples to act as individuals when it comes to spending. He buys a golf bag and tickets to the game. She buys 10 pairs of shoes and gets a manicure. No one knows what the other is doing until the credit card bill hits the mail box. If that isn't bad enough, many couples do not have a plan for their retirement nor have they discussed when either will actually retire (of course, when you want to retire and when you can retire usually are sometimes at two separate ends of the spectrum.)
Make a point to pick a time each week or each month where the two of you will sit down and discuss (without distraction) your financial plan now and for the future. Your wallet and relationship will benefit from it.
Source: www.ohio.com
Need an idea on how to better communicate with your significant other? Pick up Ask! today!
Realize that there are communication gaps in most relationships. One area where communication is vital is when it involves finances.
A recent article by Humberto Cruz entitled "Communication is Key for Finances in Marriage" (Tribune Media Services) underscores how the words of Alison Krauss' hit country single "When You Say Nothing at All" is better suited for a love ballad than for real life.
It is not uncommon for couples to act as individuals when it comes to spending. He buys a golf bag and tickets to the game. She buys 10 pairs of shoes and gets a manicure. No one knows what the other is doing until the credit card bill hits the mail box. If that isn't bad enough, many couples do not have a plan for their retirement nor have they discussed when either will actually retire (of course, when you want to retire and when you can retire usually are sometimes at two separate ends of the spectrum.)
Make a point to pick a time each week or each month where the two of you will sit down and discuss (without distraction) your financial plan now and for the future. Your wallet and relationship will benefit from it.
Source: www.ohio.com
Need an idea on how to better communicate with your significant other? Pick up Ask! today!
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